Message #4401

[Eugene66]

Trust implies failure. It is better to know. Know something will happen. It is better than trusting that something will happen.

There is no point "trying" to change things if you cannot accept how they are in the first place.

You cannot change anything if you do not accept "What is" first.

This is where most control freaks miss the bucket. The work themselves to death because they work alone. They say "This is unacceptable" in so many ways and they criticise other people and judge them and all the rest.  Then they set aboput to change things but they have to do everything in a gross phisical way or with lots of energy expenditure.

The peaceful person says. "This is so" and accepts it and gradually becomes the leader of the change they desire to see.