cool amberling, a visitors are nice... and im not so convinced you were wrong.. just the timing was diff from what you expected.. and that pushing thing..i get that when i am in a group.. and need to say something.. its not so comfortable that feeling.. and the more i ignore it.. the bigger it gets lol.. so guided we are....
the more i listen to it though the easier it is.. and th emore i practice what its telling me .. the better i am too