Beautiful wisdom.
Yes people I agree completely with Deves. We have to look deeper. It s not the person who gives you a hard time that needs the healing. It is you. You created it somehow. That s where you should look.
Why did I create this? If you get the answer to that the healing is done. I found that the answer comes easier when one removes all condemnation. You might judge yourself as a hipocrite but you condemn hipocrites so you will not allow yourself to let yourself know that you see a hipocrite in you........ :
Yeah think a bit. It takes a while to sink in.
When you remove condemnation and you allow hippocrites to be alive and express themselves in your reality then you will allow yourself to see the hippo in you when it shows too. Then you might decide to do something about it or to let it be.
Whatever the problem in your life. The root is in you.Gentle compassionate allowance brings it up.