Detach: from outcomeI have given you many clues on how to detach from outcome. The very best way and a shortcut that I use to do this is the following affirmation:
Show me some signs today that you paid attention to anyone of these things that I created or asked for now. Bring them in a way that I wont expect so I can be as pleasantly surprised at my ability to experience these things. Make it so that I will know without a doubt that it has come from this meditation. This is a powerful way to remove your mind from interfering with the creation of your manifestation.
If you have a problem with removing your ego identity. In other words if you have a problem with detaching from outcome you can try some of the following ways.
on a third party.For most inexperienced creators I suggest strongly that you make use of a third party. With all my experience in manifesting I also make use of third parties because it is the easiest method. We know that we are God and made to Her image and thus we are co-creators. But being a co-creator with a fearful ego you stand the risk of manifesting your fears as well. Your fear pops up when you are egotistically attached to what you manifested and then you break your manifestation down again before it gets real.
Who can be a third party?We can use angels, the universe, God, guides, spirits, the universe or infinite spirit or whatever you choose to help you. So thus you create a relationship with the universe and trust in the universe to unconditionally help you with whatever you want. What would this relationship look like?
I would say. “God make me your instrument.” Let me be an extension of God and go through life flowing with the wonderful divine love that God bestows upon us. Let me bring comfort to the underdog. Let me bring peace. Let me be gentle. Let me be patient. Let me be friendly. Let me be love unconditional. Let me restore good faith in life to those who have lost it. Let me see the God in others through understanding where they are coming from.
The universe is what you are. You will not be judged and punished by the universe. If you fail today then set the intention to do it again until you succeed. In the eyes of the universe you set an intention and you produce a result. These results are only that…results. They are not failures. Every result shows you what to do next time. End of story.
When you set the intention to become an instrument for the universe you can actually quit manifesting specific things. GOD KEEPS HER/HIS INSTRUMENTS WELL MAINTAINED AND WELL OILED. You will always have enough of what you desire.
Ultimately if you are too much in fear or in emotional turmoil send an email or text to all of your friends who know how to manifest to do it for you. Another person can manifest for you and be ultimately detached from the outcome because they are not as close to the situation than you are.
Cycle detachment through the entire manifestation process.This is what I call placing a guard before your thoughts. You have to find short little sentences or waking affirmations for yourself that can short circuit any negative thought you get during the day. You might drive down the road and then ego comes up with a worrying thought. You know that most of these thoughts are illusions that we grew into. These are old patterns of thinking or ‘samskara’s’ as the eastern people call them. Your mind keeps falling into an old frame of reference or script that you fall back on. Get rid of your script!
It is difficult to change old patterns thus I have devised a way to overcome the nagging thoughts in my mind with short affirmations. These will be different for everyone so I will give a few examples of what worked for me and you can take the cue from there.
Ego/mind says. “ What if it happens too late?”
Affirm out loud: “It has already happened!” or “It is already in motion.” Or ” The universe has a purpose in every event”
Ego/mind says. “What if I don’t deserve it?”
Affirm out loud: “ The universe is unconditional” or “Worth is an illusion.” Or “In the eyes of God we are all the same”
Ego/mind says. “What if someone suffers because of my desire?”
Affirm out loud: “The universe is infinitely intelligent.” Or “Everything happens for a good reason.”
Ego/mind says. “What if I didn’t do it correctly?”
Affirm out loud: “There is only another way” or “All ways are right.” Or “I can only produce a result from which to manifest again.”
Ultimately you can say: “I leave it up to the divine intelligence of the universe to work on the how and the morals.” Or “ The universe will ensure that my manifestation fits perfectly with the rest of creation.” Or “Whatever happens, happens.”
Lastly spend some time daydreaming. Dream what it would be like when that manifestation comes to reality. Dream and gather emotions. Whenever you manifest use these emotions in your visualisations. The universe does not understand words as good as emotions. When you add emotion you make yourself more clear to the universe.