That site links to a lot of others! Will be fun reading
I suppose it was typical... everyone else in my town was priming their children to marry, produce children, and take over family businesses. A lot of control.
The losing of virginity should be special, not b/c it's something to guard with your life, b/c you are open to who you are, what you want, and are going into an experience without guilt. People are guilty to say, "I want you," to someone else. Women are still afraid in many parts of the world to say they enjoy sex! God forbid they enjoy their bodies or what not. Someone might call them a whore. On the flip side, a man who enjoys sex is a player or womanizer.
When we consent and go into something without fear the guilt factor shouldn't even be there.
hmmm am I going to get in trouble for kind of taking this off topic?lol