Alexandria
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« Reply #10 on: December 12, 2009, 04:47:48 pm » |
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Well since I'm not in trouble lol
I'd never thought guilt as a way of punishing yourself until recently. I mistook it for being responsible. I was raised in a Baptist town. The people truly are lovely in most ways. Who am I to judge? Still, it's not a lifestyle I can really get on board with. Sex of course is not talked about and of course more than one partner, divorce, a second marriage... quite taboo.
Being able to be open with one another with our bodies shouldn't be something that's "evil." I'm not saying throw yourself an orgy for the sake of sex, but when one feels a connection for whatever reason.... it shouldn't be so wrong to explore it.
There again... why should any experience as long as it's consensual be considered trauma instead of learning? Obviously rape would be traumatic. But being with someone and learning likes and dislikes should not be as long as both parties went into it with free will.
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Everything comes gradually and at its appointed hour. Ovid
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