Message #6573

[Eugene66]

 So in plain terms.

Indstead of fixing the problem in you, you are looking for a patch. Another woman.

It can work too but in your case I would say it has potential for new disaster. They all look perfect in the beginning. Ego love has that blinding effect on us. The pain of hearthache and rejection has its own baptism that prepares you for life and better relating. You have to let it run its course before you date again.

When you grab onto the next relationship like a shipwrecked to a plank you are in "rebound" and in most cases you are only setting yourself up for another dissapointment. You will not learn to swim that way. But you are already in one so the best you can do is to make the most of it and to take your time.

Any good deal will be good next month too. No need to rush into anything. Take everything slow and think about it a lot.